Tuesday, September 30, 2008

2004 Question 3

It is logical that every parent should watch and accompany their child through their growth.Unfortunately,we are living in a generation whereby people prioritise their careers first rather than their families thus numerous parents do not usually spend sufficient time with their children.

As a matter of fact,i deeply believed that it is important for every parent to put aside their career temporarily so as to take care of their child's need till they reach a sensible age.This is necessary as the saying goes 'Parents Are A Child's First Teacher',therefore parents have to personate a role to educate their children and led them to a brighter future.In the case whereby a child is left unattended due to his/her parent's busy schedules,the child may end up becoming emotionally unstable due to the lacking satisfaction of love.There are many negative possibilities in a case like this so it is nevertheless the best policy for parents to stay at home with their young children to ensure the security of them growing up smoothly.

Another adequate reason why i felt that parents should not go to work when their children are still young,partially because it might result in a misunderstanding between the parents and their children.The children will probably be suffering in lonely silence with the thinking that their parents do not care for them,worst comes to worst,they may even begin to hate their parents for settling them in this loneliness.

Furthermore,there are examples which shown that parents who left their young children in the care of another guardian always ended up not having a close relationship with their children.This is because the attachment of the children to their guardians, who've taken care of them,are even closer than their parents,who have been busy with their work instead.This will inflict further arising conflicts between the parents and their children caused by miscommunication.

Parents have ever fundamental right to decide on their own whether they want to continue working during the growth of their young children, but i encourage the choices of taking a break from work and spend it with their children.In contrary,if they want the well-beings of their children to grow up peacefully without any harms and knowing rights from wrongs,it is advisable to seek accompanionship together with their children.

-Should parents go out to work when their children are still young.

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